In this video watch and learn more from Dr. Dharius Daniels and his Wife concerning how to date healthily.

Pastor Dharius Daniels and his wife in this message shared how to date in a healthy way as Christians.

He said, “We need to stay in public or not. Okay, can we Netflix and chill? When we look for characteristics and actions in men, it’s like, Okay, I feel safe with this person. I’m put on her to help this person. Yeah, what was it that made me think that when we were dating.”

His wife, Shamika also shared, “We always complimented each other but I think it actually took years into our marriage where I actually adopted the mindset like I really was created for Darius Daniels because I feel like we’re like a piece of a puzzle the places that maybe I had the strengths then you know we just compliment each other in that way and I remember.

“I was going through my own healing Journey where I needed to be emotionally healthy a lot of times, I got a lot of my worth and value out of what I did or and not necessarily who I was and so in that process I was able to start learning who Shamika was and in that I’m like I am super creative like God really created Shamika for Darius.

“And I mean after that Revelation because it was so bad I would tell him people would ask me like what do you do and when I would say I help him in you know help him with the business or help him with the church like okay well what do you do for you and I would feel some type of way right and it’s just like as I began to really process it I’m like okay I’m a boss chick everything I do I add value to.

“I’m like God really brought me his life yeah so that I could add value so I’m clear that whatever Darius says he wants to do whether it’s jump over the moon I am to help him get there.

“We have to discover ourselves first and know what God has created us to do and be. We are to add value in any little way we can to our relationships if we want them to be healthy.

“Complimenting one another in relationships is also a healthy habit because it helps with self-discovery. We have to be very careful who we are going into relationships with; is it someone that can help you grow and bring out the best in you, or is it someone you are comfortable with?”

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